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How to Save Marriage?
Marriage Counseling
"50% percent of first
marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages
end in divorce" - according to Jennifer Baker
of the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology
in Springfield, Missouri...and these are people who
have tried marriage councelling, tried to argue towards
a solution and more than anything, tried to save broken
hearts all round BUT their marriage problems continued.
You can learn how to save your marriage by following
these simple tips.
Few simple steps save your marriage:
You can start right now. But you must understand that
it is said “simple.” That is not the same
as “easy.” These steps are not easy. They
do, however, give you a path that you must follow
if you want to change the destiny of a marriage in
trouble.
Quit the Blame Game: Stop
blaming your spouse and stop blaming yourself. This
is the first step because marriages get frozen into
a pattern of blame that immobilizes any prospect of
progress. Instead, the momentum gets dragged down
and down.
Blame is our way of avoiding seeing ourselves clearly.
It is much easier to point the finger somewhere and
say “It’s their fault.” But in marriage,
you can just as easily turn that pointing finger on
yourself and place the blame there, saying “it’s
all my fault.”
Schedule Some Time Together:
Turn off your cell phones, your television and your
instant messenger. Now sit down together and really
listen to each other. Share your feelings with your
spouse and listen to them share their feelings as
well.
Do Something for Yourself: If
you're feeling self-conscious about your body, you're
probably going to reflect that onto your spouse. Create
an exercise program to help you lose weight and eat
a balanced diet. Buy yourself a new outfit for date
night, or spend a day at the spa. Do something that
makes you feel better about yourself.
Make Your Spouse Your Number
One Priority: With work and kids demanding
your constant attention, it's easy to ignore the other
adult in your life. But someday it will once again
just be the two of you, and you are going to find
that you no longer truly know the person sleeping
beside you. Take a moment each day for ur spouse &
let them know you're thinking about her throughout
the day.
Plan a Date
Night: Many couples get so comfortable
with each other after being married for several years
that they stop dressing up for each other and going
out on dates. You can re-energize your relationship
with your spouse by planning a night out once a week
when you have no choice but to dress your best.
Forgive and
Forget: The
obligation here is very simple, do not dig about the
past as well don't try to score point with your spouse
either you are the one at fault or not.
By
Following above steps one can save his/her marriage
easily.
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