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How to Save Marriage?
Marriage Counseling
"50% percent of first marriages,
67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce"
- according to Jennifer Baker of the Forest Institute
of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri...and
these are people who have tried marriage councelling,
tried to argue towards a solution and more than anything,
tried to save broken hearts all round BUT their marriage
problems continued.
You can learn how to save your marriage by following
these simple tips.
Few simple steps save your marriage:
You can start right now. But you must understand that
it is said “simple.” That is not the same
as “easy.” These steps are not easy. They
do, however, give you a path that you must follow if
you want to change the destiny of a marriage in trouble.
Quit the Blame Game: Stop
blaming your spouse and stop blaming yourself. This
is the first step because marriages get frozen into
a pattern of blame that immobilizes any prospect of
progress. Instead, the momentum gets dragged down and
down.
Blame is our way of avoiding seeing ourselves clearly.
It is much easier to point the finger somewhere and
say “It’s their fault.” But in marriage,
you can just as easily turn that pointing finger on
yourself and place the blame there, saying “it’s
all my fault.”
Schedule Some Time Together:
Turn off your cell phones, your television and your
instant messenger. Now sit down together and really
listen to each other. Share your feelings with your
spouse and listen to them share their feelings as well.
Do Something for Yourself: If
you're feeling self-conscious about your body, you're
probably going to reflect that onto your spouse. Create
an exercise program to help you lose weight and eat
a balanced diet. Buy yourself a new outfit for date
night, or spend a day at the spa. Do something that
makes you feel better about yourself.
Make Your Spouse Your Number One
Priority: With work and kids demanding your constant
attention, it's easy to ignore the other adult in your
life. But someday it will once again just be the two
of you, and you are going to find that you no longer
truly know the person sleeping beside you. Take a moment
each day for ur spouse & let them know you're thinking
about her throughout the day.
Plan a Date Night:
Many couples get so comfortable with each other after
being married for several years that they stop dressing
up for each other and going out on dates. You can re-energize
your relationship with your spouse by planning a night
out once a week when you have no choice but to dress
your best.
Forgive and
Forget: The
obligation here is very simple, do not dig about the
past as well don't try to score point with your spouse
either you are the one at fault or not.
By Following
above steps one can save his/her marriage easily.
Stop
Divorce
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