Wedding Night Experience Steps and Tips
The first marriage night is filled with hope of love, romance, happiness, joy, anxiety, nervousness, hesitation, lot of anticipation and many expectations about upcoming married life. Wedding night is one of the most awaiting night in human life. Everyone wants to make his/her wedding night most memorable and pleasant night. This is the night of dreams, love and romance. In present days, newly wed couples know each other very well before marriage. There is no concept of sexual experience or relation before marriage in Islam and many other religions of the world. So the question arises if practice makes perfect then how can we make our wedding night experience a perfect one? And how can we prepare for our first marriage night when we are not supposed to practice? These questions are important and have weight but you don’t need to worry. You can spend your wedding night according to Islamic law by following expert tips and experience sharing about first night of marriage.
Wedding night is a glorious night after an exhausting marriage ceremony. Although this night is full of passions, love and joy but at the same time, however, many couples specially bride feels intense psychological pressure. In order to make your wedding night a memorable night, we have some tips and experiences to share with you (Suhagraat Ka Tarika):
- Don’t panic or feel nervous:
Many people feel nervous on their first wedding night and spend all of their precious time in hesitation. Some people try to do everything in hurry and think a shadi night means jumping into bed right after entering the room. Both these attitudes are not good. You should enjoy talking with your life partner by telling her which parts of her body you love the most. You should also take few minutes to set the scene. Play your or her favorite music, give her some gift and do whatever you think is good to make your wedding night romantic and memorable.
- Try to understand body language:
Always keep in mind body has its own language. You should keep asking question like: Should I kiss you? Should I touch your body. And keep on watching her body and see the movement. When she tries to come closer to you then it is the time to indulge in full love.
- Don’t take pressure:
Many people specially men in Asian society try to be victorious on the first wedding night. They want to show their power to their wives. Try to do these foolish things they take a lot of pressure on themselves. It is completely wrong. Your wife doesn’t force you for a high level performance in love and romance. If she is tired, then you should ask her to sleep and take rest. It is far better than forcing her to indulge in romance.
- Understand each other’s feelings:
Couple should make sure that both of them understand each other and respect each other’s feelings and desires. Love marriage is good in this sense as if a couple knows each other well before marriage then they can do and act according to likes and dislikes, mood, nature and feelings of the other partner. And if marriage is arranged then both partners should try to understand and take care of the other one’s feelings.
- Lower your expectations:
Never build high palace of dreams and high expectations. There might be something happened that would make your marriage night not as good as you may have thought. But remember there and hundreds of nights are waiting for you to enjoy your married life.
- Wear specially designed dress:
Although this is not necessary but you should wear specially designed, one of the best and most beautiful dress on your wedding day. You should pay full attention to your dress as if you wear well designed dress then it will enhance your beauty and your life partner will love to see you again and again. Bride should make sure her undergarments make her feel pretty, attractive and presentable to her husband.
- Put fruits and sweets in room:
Ask your relatives to put fruits and sweets in your wedding night room. If they can’t do then bring with yourself. Ask your life partner to eat those and of course, you can force her with love to eat from your hands.
- If you can’t do what you want:
Now a days the pressure of the marriage night can be too much for many grooms. If it happens with your and you think things are not going on the track you have planned then your should try to change up the mood by talking on love and romance and spend some time kissing her.
- Remain and feel confident:
Never lose your heart if you can’t do what you have planned to do. You should think about different ways to make yourself feel confident. That might mean giving some pretty and precious rings, necklace or other jewelry as a gift to her, using low candlelight, decorating your room with flowers, booking a hotel room for your first night etc.
- Think about virginity:
Losing a virginity by bride is sometimes a little painful or bloody but if you take care of her feelings then it will not last for too long. You should foreplay until she agrees for intercourse and use a good lubricant for penetration.
Dear readers, these are some simple wedding night tips. There are hundred more tips that can help you to make your marriage night a special one. One thing you should always keep in mind that you are married now and there is no need to do everything in hurry, your wife will spend her remaining life with you. So try to put first best impression on her. Your first night with your life partner is the beginning of a totally new type of relationship that have no veils and no barriers as nothing remains hidden between a husband and wife. If you think something important is missed by me in this article then please share it with others by adding your comments to this article. Your comments will surely be published.